ElderCare Expert Blog » parents http://www.agingpro.com/blog Inspiring, Educating and Empowering Caregivers Cheryl Mathieu, Ph.D., M.S.W. Tue, 15 Mar 2011 19:28:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 en hourly 1 AgingPro Caregiving Tip: What is Mine to Do? http://www.agingpro.com/blog/2009/05/agingpro-caregiving-tip-what-is-mine-to-do/ http://www.agingpro.com/blog/2009/05/agingpro-caregiving-tip-what-is-mine-to-do/#comments Sat, 09 May 2009 04:06:22 +0000 Cheryl Mathieu http://www.agingpro.com/blog/?p=195 AgingPro Caregiving Tip: What is Mine to Do?
When caring for an older loved one, it is important to ask yourself, “What is mine to do in this situation?” Some caregivers will find themselves called to give hands-on assistance, others will donate money, food or time, and still others will do nothing. Be aware that each person is doing the best they can at the moment.

Building resentment over what others are or are not doing in the caregiving role is neither productive nor healthy—for you, for them, or for your loved one. Determine what is yours to do, and do it to the best of your ability. You can’t possibly do everything that you think needs to be done. Tell yourself and your loved one, “I love you, and I’m going to do the best I can with what I have and with what I know.”

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